No parent has gone unaffected by the stressors of the past few years. But for working dads, the pressure to hide the strain is taking an additional toll.
While the pandemic has disproportionately impacted
“We could probably spend a lot of time talking about this feeling that dads have around what they should do or not do, or feel or not feel,” Vagner says. “As employers, we can either perpetuate what I think is a broken system, or we can examine it and try to fix it.”
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Vagner says that starts with benefits — namely,
That’s a stereotype that needs to end, Vager says. He shares how Maven is supporting working fathers and all parents by requiring them to
COVID has been really challenging for working parents, and we’re all super focused on the moms, which we need to be, but what are some of the things impacting working dads and other caregivers that might be overlooked?
How much time do you have? We could probably spend a lot of time talking about this feeling that dads have around what they should do or not do, or feel or not feel. We recently launched a report that found that working fathers only take 30-50% of the leave that they're given when they become dads. Pair that with this notion that if
Also, dads often feel like, OK, I have 16 weeks of leave, but I don’t need to take that; I’ll be bored, or the business won’t survive without me. There are just a lot of outdated symptoms of a culture that we should really be examining. We need to make sure we're tailoring our messages to
It's so important to have that sense that we're all in this together and these benefits are for all. But could it be beneficial to single out men and say, we have paternity leave, and you should take it?
When it comes to parental leave and paternity leave in particular, I think employers have a responsibility to tell their employees that they have to take it. But saying that only goes so far — employers have to model that behavior as well. There are too many male CEOs that you see not taking any time off, and what message does that send? I’ll look weak. I’ll look soft. So employers need to set the tone that we encourage and require you to take the time to go support your family.
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We know that if things are good at home, things can be good at work. So it's actually in my best interest as the head of people to make sure that none of my employees are up at night stressing about how they will take care of their kid. We can take care of that and we should.
How are you practicing what you preach for your team at Maven?
Personally, if you ask anybody who works with me, what they hear the most is, it’s ok to not be ok right now. I have made it something of a mission to make sure that we are acknowledging the world around us and calling out the
What does a perfect world for working dads and caregivers look like to you? Do you think it’s possible?
I'd love to see our government provide parental leave to all parents. I think the way you can do that is look at what a birthing parent needs medically, and start there as table stakes for everyone else. Then we need to make sure that we're being really
That's what we're trying to do with Maven. We celebrate our parents. We made it very clear that there are all different paths of parenthood and we set a leave policy that is for everyone. Our employees know that you have to take the leave, and you can do it in the way that makes the most sense for your family. You can break it up in your first year, if that makes the most sense. We don’t have people who say, Oh, I know I have 16 weeks, but I'm only going to take two. That's not going to fly. That's not fair to your family, and your family comes first. And I don't want to keep this to ourselves. So what's next is to take what we've learned and help make other companies